Sunday, September 17, 2017

Generous Listening

Pastor Renee Ford

This morning, Pastor Renee Ford’s sermon was on Luke 8:16-21 which teaches us that Jesus listened generously to others.
When we listen to others, are we listening with our whole heart? Or are we distracted? Is it hard to keep our attention on the other person’s conversation when so many things are racing through our minds?

Sometimes, we need a friend to generously listen to us. I know I do.

As we remember that September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, be generous in listening to neighbors and coworkers.
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Here is an interesting blog that tells what people are doing to provide "free listening".



Pastor Renee Ford is the pastor for Grays United Methodist Church, Houserville House of Hope, and Woodycrest United Methodist Church. She is also an Instructional Designer for the Department of eLearning Design and Innovation Group in the Smeal College of Business at Penn State.

Saturday, September 16, 2017

The Power of Team

The Power of Team

The flightless fairy penguin of Australia stands
less than a foot tall and is clumsy on land, where
the fox is its natural enemy. Alone, one penguin
wouldn't survive for long. So, after each day in the
water, they gather where the surf meets the shore,
waiting until the last penguin joins them. Then shoulder
to shoulder they march up the beach to their burrows.
They support each other. They rely on each other.
And everyone, except the fox, wins.

We're a stronger team because of you.

 
When supervisors recognize their employees, it helps them feel appreciated and they will want to work harder.
 
In our customer service group of six, our supervisor would give each of us a customer service recognition gift each year during Customer Service Celebration Week, which is the week of October 1-5, this year.
It has been four years since I have worked and finding these recognitions brought back many wonderful memories of my work in customer service.
 
Employees really like to be appreciated. Please remember your employees with rewards of recognition for their service and contributions.
Below are two other customer service recognitions from my supervisor:
 
 


Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Suuki's First Hour with Grandpa

Suuki with a flower in her hair 8-16-17

The writing on the card says it all.

Suuki's grandpa, Larry, loves to take pictures and write funny stories about the picture. This is just the first hour of her stay. The next 12 days of her visit will be filled with wonderful surprises.  Her mommy and daddy, Kate and Mark, are vacationing with friends at the shore.


Larry, Kate, Suuki, Mark - July 4, 2017

Sunday, August 13, 2017

Life Through the Holy Spirit





Pastor Renee Ford and Mikayla Castellano
In this morning’s sermon, Pastor Renee Ford talked about “An Apostle’s Tale: Freedom” from Romans 8:1-11.
 
In these verses, Apostle Paul talks about the freedom of being released from condemnation when we believe in Jesus. Jesus died on the cross for our sins so we could be forgiven when we sin against God.

Through the Holy Spirit, God ministers to us, enabling us to make changes in our lives. The Spirit empowers us to do the work of God, and even though we will die a physical death, we will live forever in God’s kingdom.

With the Holy Spirit, our growth will help us share God’s love with others.

We had a special visitor today, Mikayla Castellano, who was a camp counselor this summer at Camp Kanesatake where she ministered to 30 girls, ages 8-16. Mikayla is returning to Indiana University of Pennsylvania (IUP) where she will graduate in May 2018 with a degree in Special Education.

Pastor Renee Ford is the pastor for Grays United Methodist Church, Houserville House of Hope, and Woodycrest United Methodist Church. She is also an Instructional Designer for the Department of eLearning Design and Innovation Group in the Smeal College of Business at Penn State.

Sunday, August 6, 2017

Painting Brings Back Childhood Memories


Painted by Amy Hoffmann Ritter
 
Amy’s painting pulls me in and makes me feel as though I am standing right inside her picture. It took me a while to understand the emotions her picture stirs in me, but now I understand.

Her painting brings back precious childhood memories.

Jar of pink peonies on my Mother's grave
The off-white flowers remind me of a long row of dark red, pink, and white blossomed peony plants that edged our yard and bloomed in time for family grave decorations on Memorial Day at the Salem Methodist Church my family attended. My mother (her name was Lillian) and her sister, my Aunt Ruth, would gather these flowers and arrange the different colors in glass jars to sit on our family graves. After the Memorial service, people would congregate inside the church and outside in the graveyard to catch up with family they hadn’t seen since the past Memorial Day. People often traveled more than a hundred miles to attend the services. Memorial Day was always been a big event for my family and we would have a meal at our family home where people would stop by to eat after the service. A jar or two of peonies would grace the dinner table and fill the air with their strong fragrance.

The blue sky in Amy’s painting reminds me of times when I would lie on my back, as a kid, in the fields on our farm and look up at the skies during the long summer days. I could spend hours looking at the blue sky and the white fluffy clouds that drifted through the sky. Sometimes, I would chew on a dry piece of straw. It was quiet and I could hear birds chirping, cows mooing, and an airplane flying overhead. It created a time for me to daydream.

Amy, thank you for creating this painting. It helped bring back childhood memories that I have not thought about for a long time.

Your paintings are gifts of inspiration from your heart. Keep painting. Keep inspiring!

Do You Wrestle with Decisions?

Pastor Renee Ford
Pastor Renee Ford, who is recovering from shoulder surgery, blessed us this morning with a sermon on "Wrestling" from Genesis 29:15-28. This sermon finishes her 10-week series on "The Dog Days of Summer."

Before she started her sermon, she asked the congregation if they wrestled with their brothers and sisters when they were growing up.

I grew up on a farm where I had to wrestle calves to get them back into their stalls when they escaped from the barn. When the opponent is stronger than you are, it's hard to hang on and stand your ground.

Pastor Renee was trying to lead us into another realm of thinking about times we wrestle with decisions, whether small or hard ones, and how the outcomes may prepare us for something bigger later.

Jacob and an angel wrestling
In the above cited Biblical passage, Jacob wrestled many hours during the nighttime with a traveling stranger, an angel directed by God. As dawn approached, the stranger asked Jacob to let him go, but Jacob wouldn't let him go until the stranger blessed him.  The stranger blessed Jacob with the name "Israel" which means "One Who Strives with God." The stranger then touched Jacob's hip socket which threw his hip out of joint causing Jacob to let go.

How would God use Jacob who had stolen his brother's birthright? Jacob could not get to where he needed to be to do God's work unless this wrestling match happened. In the end, Jacob was given a new name which would be a significant part of his journey.

Why do we wrestle with decisions?

Is it God's way of inspiring our faith journey? Is God preparing us for something bigger that we don't know about?

Pastor Renee Ford is the pastor for Grays United Methodist Church, Houserville House of Hope, and Woodycrest United Methodist Church. She is also an Instructional Designer for the Department of eLearning Design and Innovation Group in the Smeal College of Business at Penn State.




Friday, August 4, 2017

Father Unexpectedly Bumps Into Younger Son, Frank, at Dallas Airport

Left to right - Eric and His Son, Frank, on Plane from Dallas to Denver

Today, our son, Eric, was flying from his home in South Carolina to Denver to stay a few days with his older son, Eric, Jr., who relocated there recently for his job.
At 7:50 p.m., Eric sent me a text that said, “Guess who I met in the Dallas airport?”

I called Eric right away to see if I could reach him before he boarded his next flight. Here is his story.

He was walking around the terminal in Dallas when he rounded a corner and saw a young man who looked like his son, Frank, from State College.

Believe it or not, it was Frank.

Both of his sons had coordinated a plan that Frank would meet his Dad at the Dallas airport and surprise him.

Our son Eric was so happy. I wish I could have recorded his voice so I could replay it over and over.

Eric will spend a few days with both his sons and will explore the Colorado Rocky Mountains.

Daughter Follows in Mother's Footsteps
















It was a happy moment, yesterday, when I saw Christina Ripka-Hodges, a friend, and her daughter, Maggie, standing in front the South Hills table set up with new student name tags.

They were at the school to attend the New Student Luncheon held for the incoming Fall Term students.

Enrolled in the Graphic Arts Program at the State College campus, Maggie will start school on August 28.  How excited she must be to start her first day of college in the exciting Graphic Arts Program.

Maggie is following in her mother's footsteps.

Her mother, Christina, who is employed in customer service at Jostens, graduated from South Hills in 1998 with a degree in Business Marketing and Management.

Maggie, congratulations on choosing South Hills to go to college. You are going to love it there.




Tammy Speaks to New Students

Tammy McCoy




Tammy McCoy, a second year AP (Administrative Professional) student, was invited to speak at the New Student Luncheon for fall term, held August 3, 2017 at the State College South Hills school.


 

 
 
 
Gleaning from her wealth of work and school experience, Tammy spoke about: 
"Tips to Help Start Your First Year Right."
  • Budget Your Time
  • Attend All Classes
  • Don't be Afraid to Ask Questions
  • Expect to Learn New Things and to Meet New People
Both popular and focused at school, Tammy can be found studying with other students in the Commons Area when she is not in class.

As you can see from her picture above, she always welcomes you with a beautiful smile. We are blessed to have Tammy at school. She brightens everyone's day.

 
 

Monday, July 31, 2017

Alexis - A Future South Hills Graduate



Alexis - Administrative Professional Graduate  Sept. 2017
While waiting outside the door where my 8 o’clock class would start, I recognized someone who was walking down the hallway toward me. Alexis was carrying her blue graduation gown and was on her way to have her picture taken with her fellow-students who will graduate from South Hills in September 2018.

Alexis is also one of the South Hills Student Ambassadors who organized groups of student visitors to take them to different classes where they could sit in while the classes were in session. I first met Alexis in the fall of 2015 when I was auditing courses at South Hills. When the “Day at the Hills” arrived that term, she encouraged me to attend a customer service class and an accounting class. She was a student in both classes, so I followed her. Both classes are in the Administrative Professional Program which is the program in which Alexis will receive her degree.

When I became a full-time student in the Administrative Professional Program in August 2016, I joined the Student Ambassador Club. On the “Day at the Hills,” I was able to work alongside Alexis who was always busy helping someone. It’s just her nature. She always had a smile for everyone.

Alexis lives near Belleville and would drive the back roads to South Hills, even in the wintertime. In addition to being a full-time student, she is always busy at home helping her mother and father with their work. She is doing her summer internship at Strawberry Fields, Inc., in State College, PA.

I will miss seeing her around school because she has been such an inspiration to all of us.
Congratulations, Alexis, on achieving your Administrative Professional Degree at South Hills! All the best to you in the future!

Sunday, July 30, 2017

Determination


Determination


Rev. Karen Weiss at Woodycrest UMC, July 30, 2017
Rev. Karen Weiss talked about “Determination” in the continued series of sermons “Dog Days of Summer” in this morning’s service.

Our scripture reading was from Genesis 29:15-28.  

Our regular pastor, Pastor Renee Ford, is recovering from shoulder surgery.

 When we are determined to accomplish something, are our motives pure or selfish? Let’s look at four people, Jacob, Laban, Leah, and Rachel, in the above Genesis scripture. As we learned from an earlier sermon, Esau’s birthright was stolen by Jacob who had to leave his homeland to avoid being killed by Esau. Jacob traveled to Laban's home, a relative who lived 500 miles from Jacob’s home, and offered to work for him.
Laban asked Jacob what he should pay him for his work, and Jacob replied that he would like to marry Rachel, Laban’s second daughter, who was beautiful. Laban agreed to give Rachel to Jacob after he completed seven years of work. The seven years went by quickly for Jacob, and Laban planned the wedding to be held at night in order to trick Jacob.  He gave his older daughter, Leah, rather than Rachel to be married to Jacob.

Leah had poor eyesight and was not as attractive as Rachel, so Laban felt no one would ask for her hand in marriage and tricked Jacob into marrying her. The morning after the wedding, Jacob realized what happened and asked Laban to give him Rachel, as he had promised, but Laban said that Jacob would have to work another seven years. Jacob agreed to work another seven years for Rachel’s hand.

As we can see, Jacob was a determined man. He had the patience to steal Esau’s birthright when Esau was at his lowest, and he was willing to work for 14 years to marry Rachel. Laban was a determined man, too.  And we don’t know if Leah was in on her dad’s plot to marry her, rather than Rachel, to Jacob.  It seems she could be because the first daughter is married first, so she may have turned down offers of marriage which we don’t know. These are examples of determination driven by unhealthy thoughts.

How can we use determination for the betterment of the world without hurting someone else? Our motivations count because God sees our heart.

Rev. Weiss encourages us to pray to God for direction to help us know if our desires are pure or selfish.

Rev. Karen Weiss is an ordained deacon in the UMC and provides spiritual direction through Water Works Ministries. She has a Masters of Religion, Spiritual Formation, 2013, from Evangelical Seminary, and a BS, Environmental Systems Engineering, 2001, from Penn State. She has travelled as a ministry volunteer three times to Thailand, one time to Mongolia, and various times around the United States.

Sunday, July 23, 2017

Sacrificial Love


Pastor Renee Ford and Cassandra Lyon, a Penn State Graduate
With the theme on loyalty this morning, Pastor Renee Ford continued her summer sermon series on the "Dog Days of Summer," and how it ties in with our scripture reading from Ruth 1:6-18. In this reading, Ruth shows her loyalty to Naomi, her mother-in-law, by staying by her side regardless of the consequences for Ruth.

Dogs also display loyalty regardless of the consequences. Zander, a white dog, travelled two miles through heavy traffic to the hospital where his owner was a patient. Pastor Renee shared how her own dog would travel to her school each day to watch for her and then travel back to where she would get off the bus after school. Incredible loyalty. She said there are countless stories about dogs’ loyalty that could fill volumes.

As we can see from the stories above, dogs will take incredible risks for their owners out of love. Ruth knew that Naomi needed someone to take care of her, so, out of love, she took incredible risks to stay by Naomi’s side.

Another moral to these stories is that often our richest treasures result from our faith journeys. We need each other more than anything else. Our lesson is not what we have that matters, but who we have. Picture God’s love for us.

This week, Pastor Renee would like us to follow Ruth’s example when someone needs our care.

Pastor Renee Ford is the pastor for Grays United Methodist Church, Houserville House of Hope, and Woodycrest United Methodist Church. She is also an Instructional Designer for the Department of eLearning Design and Innovation Group in the Smeal College of Business at Penn State.

"Sweet Beulah Land"




For our special music this morning, Pastor Renee Ford sang a song “Sweet Beulah Land.” Pastor Renee recently officiated a funeral for a lady who requested this song be sung at her funeral.

Pastor Renee said she has been thinking about the words since the funeral and wanted to share with us this morning.
 
The words are beautiful and touching. The song was written and composed by Squire Parsons in 1973.
 
 Listen to Carroll Robinson sing the song.

 “Sweet Beulah Land”


I'm kind of homesick for a country
To which I've never been before.
No sad goodbyes will there be spoken
For time won't matter anymore.
I'm looking now, just across the river
To where my faith, shall end in sight (Shall end in sight)
There's just a few more days to labor.
Then I will take my heavenly flight.
Chorus:
Beulah Land (Beulah Land) I'm longing for you (I'm longing for you)
And some day (And some day) on thee I'll stand (Someday we will stand)
There my home (There my home) shall be eternal (Eternal)
Beulah Land, sweet Beulah Land

Pastor Renee Ford is the pastor for Grays United Methodist Church, Houserville House of Hope, and Woodycrest United Methodist Church. She is also an Instructional Designer for the Department of eLearning Design and Innovation Group in the Smeal College of Business at Penn State.


Monday, July 17, 2017

Beautiful Skies Bring Back Childhood Memories

These unusual cloud formations are so beautiful that I wanted to share them with you.

I was sitting on my deck this evening, thinking about the day, and became caught up in the beautiful sky all around me.

While taking the pictures, I started thinking about my Mother when I was a child and we lived on the farm in West Virginia.

Sunsets then meant the day was over, the chores were done outside, and we would be inside preparing to go to bed  (we were asleep before 9 p.m.).


To enjoy a sunset today has become a rare thing for many of us.

Our lives have become so busy that we don't have the time to take a moment to soak in the beauty of a sunset or even look up at the sky, except when we are driving.

Here are seven reasons for taking time to enjoy the sunset.

Enjoy and thank you for listening.

Have a great week!


Sunday, July 16, 2017

Conflict and Struggle


Darien Parker, Pastor Renee Ford, Mary Bunge
This morning’s message was about conflict and struggle. In Genesis 25: 19-34, Esau gave his brother, Jacob, his birthright for a cup of red lentil soup.

In the story, Isaac and Rebekah were married 20 years before Rebekah gave birth to twin boys, Esau and Jacob. Esau was born first, all red and hairy, and Jacob, clinging to Esau’s heel, was born second. As Rebekah carried the twins, they wrestled in her womb, like two disagreeing nations. Esau became a skilled hunter and Jacob was a quiet man who stayed close to the tents.

One day, Esau came back to the tents and was exhausted from hunting. He said he was so hungry he would do anything for a bowl of red lentel soup that Jacob had been preparing. Jacob, seeing that Esau would do anything to satisfy his hunger, told Esau he would give him a bowl of red lentil soup if Esau would give him his birthright. Esau, who was famished and felt near death, agreed to give Jacob his birthright. The birthright meant that Jacob would become the leader of the family and receive twice as much inheritance.

This story helps me understand that all conflicts and struggles may not have immediate solutions, but my choices may make the outcomes different.  I am grateful for my family, my church family, and my friends for their support and friendship. 

Thank someone who has blessed you.

Have a great week.

Pastor Renee Ford is the pastor for Grays United Methodist Church, Houserville House of Hope, and Woodycrest United Methodist Church. She is also an Instructional Designer for the Department of eLearning Design and Innovation Group in the Smeal College of Business at Penn State.
 
 


Saturday, July 15, 2017

The Smile of a Happy Dog

Mark and Suuki
Even dogs smile as you can see in this picture of our son, Mark, and our grand dog, Suuki. They let me take their picture when they stopped by in October 2014.  You can see her smile and the strength in her legs as she braces herself against Mark's knees.

Suuki is a rescue dog and is still shy around others even though she has been in our family for several years. She loves to ride in the car and stand on her hind legs and look out the window.

She loves to go hiking in the mountains. Even though she is a small dog, she has no trouble hiking up mountain trails. She loves to go in the water when she is near the stream because her little belly gets hot and the water cools her.

Her Grandpa calls her the "Great Suuk."

A Welcomed Surprise Visit


Tammy and Stephany
Have you had someone turn up at the "right" moment?

On Thursday, just before noon, Tammy and I were working on Advanced Word assignments  in Room 12 at South Hills when we noticed our classroom door open slowly. We saw a welcomed face with a big smile--Stephany.

It has been a month since we last saw Stephany, who is working a summer internship, while Tammy and I are attending summer term at South Hills.


Stephany was her bubbly-self, full of wisdom, with lots of good ideas about school. She truly made our day.

Thank you, Stephany, for taking your lunch hour to stop by. Have a wonderful summer!

Sunday, July 9, 2017

You Are Never Alone


Pastor Renee Ford -Woodycrest United Methodist Church
In this morning’s message, Pastor Renee shared how dogs play hard but rest hard, too. Kids are the same way. We need to rest, too, but sometimes, it doesn’t seem very easy to do. We may feel we have a burden we are carrying, feeling like we can’t carry it any more. We are bad at resting and letting go, bad at the concept of resting our souls. We feel like we are all alone, bearing what is heavy on our hearts.

Matthew 11:28-30 states “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Yoke
Matthew uses the image of the yoke to help people understand what it is like to follow Jesus, and when we say yes to Jesus, we will be stronger.

Our church has a  prayer chain where anyone can call (814) 238-1683  and request prayer. Because of our own grief, it can be hard to pray, but others will pray for us when they know we need prayer. Resting in the faith of others can help give us peace in our hearts.

Pastor Renee Ford is the pastor for Grays United Methodist Church, Houserville House of Hope, and Woodycrest United Methodist Church. She is also an Instructional Designer for the Department of eLearning Design and Innovation Group in the Smeal College of Business at Penn State.
 

Wednesday, July 5, 2017

Happy Memories of July 4th

Larry, Kate, Suuki, Mark


It’s always fun to see the smiling faces of our son, Mark, and Kate, our daughter-in-law. And especially, our grand dog, Suuki. We joined them at their 4th of July outing in Spring Creek Park to share in their fun.


When we arrived, Kate and Suuki were down at the creek where Suuki was having a good time wading in the water. Her little belly always feels hot during the summer, so she enjoys sitting in the water to cool off.


When Suuki got out of the water, she was all excited when she saw us but she was a little unsure on what to do, so she ran to each of us and smelled and licked our hands. 

Then she hurried to Mark’s feet and started looking up at him, with a begging look in her eyes for him to pick her up.


As you can see in the picture, she feels secure under Mark’s arm. You can see a smile on her face, too.


Our attention is focused on Suuki in the picture. She brings so much joy to our lives.




Generous Listening

Pastor Renee Ford This morning, Pastor Renee Ford’s sermon was on Luke 8:16-21 which teaches us that Jesus listened generously to oth...